Jane Eyre: A Story of Self-Worth & Resilience

Found in Nina’s suitcase: carbon copy of a letter to Millie (1959)

Lavender Hill B&B, Cotswolds
July 8th, 1959

Dear Millie,

Jane Eyre made me feel the feels.

Forget what you know about 19th-century female characters playing the waiting game... whether they’re shy and sweet or full of witty comebacks, they’re still waiting to be chosen by a rich, handsome gentleman. Don’t roll your eyes, Millie... I know you love your Austen heroines, but Jane’s a whole different story.

Jane Eyre is the blueprint. Despite a painful childhood and the kind of low self-esteem so many of us know too well, she somehow still sees her worth.

The magnetic bookmark in the photo is part of Nina's collection! You can find it in my shop.

There is no saviour. Jane is (and must be) her own. What I love most about this book is how deeply it speaks to the idea of surviving on your own terms. She takes the road less travelled and refuses to settle, even after enduring pain, loneliness, and longing. Because when the offer finally comes, if it costs her peace or self-respect, she still walks away, armed with just resilience.

Jane faces injustice, submits to hardship when she must, but never lets go of her integrity. Even when things are unbearably difficult, when there's no hope left, she remains anchored to what she knows to be right, not according to society or others’ approval, but according to her.

She’s vulnerable. She’s compassionate. She’s tempted. But she never loses sight of herself.

Jane Eyre isn’t just a classic. It’s a lesson in self-worth, and in knowing when to walk away. I envy her strength. I admire her clarity. I think she’s ahead of us.

Everyone (woman or man) should read this book at least once.

Love,

Nina

P.S. Written while waiting for the rain to stop and the tea to cool... neither of which seems to be in a hurry.